“The furthest distance in the world than sitting with us, you are playing mobile phones. “ This sentence is widely spread on the Internet. Last spring, this is a unique opportunity of family reunification. But found that on the table today, many young people into playing with mobile phone, great difficulty for the elderly till the boys are back, only to find that the children little exchange with them. Qingdao has seen such a scene: just playing with the grandchildren on the phone, ignored the old rage and fell walked away on the plate.
Emotional crisis triggered by the phone, repeatedly staged. We have to reflect on, enjoy the convenient mobile phone at the same time, are relying too heavily on cell phones and ignore the reality of interpersonal communication? Recently, the China Youth daily social survey Centre, through question customer survey and public opinion in China networks, 12,098 survey conducted by the respondents, 71.8% respondents believed that excessive reliance on cell phones at the expense of face-to-face intercourse was widespread.
More than half of the respondents in addition to receiving calls and send and receive text messages per day using cell phones at more than 1 hour
“Can you leave your attention away from the phone, you lend me some. “Friends again and again even after combustion, Wuhan University sophomore Zhang Jiao begun to reflect on their own this” disgusting “behavior.
Surveys show that 36.8% people ringtones of auditory hallucinations, 36.4% said the phone never left hand 30.2% who admits often aimlessly on a cellphone, 24% people have heard “don’t play with mobile phones” similar advice.
Today, the overflow of simple communication significance of mobile phone function into a terminal that can do everything. Survey shows that Internet became an important feature on the phone, including: browsing the Web (56.7%), online chat (41.4%), brushed micro-Bo (25.9%), English (29.3%) and so on. Others include: playing games (34.6%), reading (34.2%), listen to the song (33.4%), phone (19.5%), watching videos (17.7%).
Surveys show that 57.1% of respondents: answering telephone calls and sending and receiving text messages aside, time is more than 1 hour per day use mobile phones, used cell phones for more than 3 hours of 19.6%.
“Sometimes, I have grave doubts about whether you should go and see a psychiatrist. “Zhang Jiao recalls his own day: wake up at 7 o’clock in the morning, brushing half an hour in bed microblogging; with mobile music to get up, wash; class, just need a free hand to pick up the phone; not to mention class. Some other time, mobile phones will never leave the body, an average of 5 minutes to open it, afraid to miss anything.
Why do people use their mobile phones more and more frequently? 65.2% Express is convenient for the people, 64.1% say is the cell phone functionality more and more comprehensive, 64% thought that life needs, 36.5% people with respect is the modern style of life is monotonous, empty inside.
National secondary mental health consultant Liu Shuqing said in an interview with China Youth daily reporter, mobile phones as an information channel, is a product of the times. Along with the emergence of mass information, people increasingly want to know with their associated information changes at any time in order to respond in a timely manner. People are afraid to be discarded by the fast-changing modern society, will produce a kind of anxiety, this anxiety must be temporary calm through brain kept functioning and search, and causing over-reliance on mobile phones.
“‘ Not living in the moment ‘ is modern people’s diseases, high-tech means just provided ‘ is not at this moment ‘ approach. “Liu Shuqing said, the more people rely on this high-tech tool, the more prone to alienation between man and man.
55.7% people think that over-reliance on mobile phones can make a reality variation for the ability to communicate
Trade Union in an enterprise of Sichuan Xie Dan about his colleague Xiao Zhang. Small piece of work hard, be honest, but all of his overall assessment was not gregarious. “He’s busy playing with his head down and a man buried phones, never talk to other people. Once, he forgot to bring a mobile phone, mind on results day. He is isolating himself. “Xie Dan said.
When it comes to “mobile phone dependence” hazard, investigations revealed that 55.7% said would make realistic exchange variation, 46.1% said to narrow the sphere of life, 29.9% who may sink deeper into loneliness.
“Excessive reliance on mobile phones is an addiction, have contributed to people being lazy. “Social psychology of Wuhan University said Professor Luo Jiao said, mobile phones rely on just a microcosm of modern high-tech dependent. Today, drivers walking I felt tired, which is bound to affect people’s physical health.
In the investigation, 57.1% said cell phones depend on will affect your eyes, 52.3% thought that will be detrimental to health. 41.1% who further noted that cell phone relies on thinking will lead to loss of motivation and ability, 35.7% thought that causes attention deficit.
“If you rely too much on rival machines and other electronic product, caused little more solitary emotion, then study and work. Particularly minors, it is easy to indulge in the fantasy world, will have ‘ self centered ‘ awareness and a strong sense of isolation, this is very bad for their future growth would hamper their integration into society. “Popular Chinese net users, Liu said.
Makes mobile nature of regression tools
When do people usually take out cell phone? Survey shows, starting with “when you call, send and receive text messages” (57.8%), followed by “boring” (54.1%), and the third is “or waiting for the bus” (46.7%). 13.2% of the people at the party will be a lot of people take out your cell phone, when 17.5% people attending a meeting or take out your cell phone.
“Mobile phones are a tool, life and work are inseparable from. Mobile phone is also a toy, you can eliminate the loneliness and boredom. But all things are not excessive. Everything is divided, depending on how you use it! “The network of a public Chinese Netizen.
Psychological analysis of South China Normal University, Dr Chen Canrui said that the Chinese people’s emotional restraint, not very good at direct face-to-face expression. And the status of mobile Internet, making emotional expression is more open. But both network communication and mobile communication are limited, because these tone masks expression of information, information and so on. Excessive concern about “conversation” may to some extent ignored the reality of interpersonal communication. Chen Canrui believes that we normally do or should be laid down their phones more, leave the computer, how to walk outdoors, communicate with friends, find some interesting things to do, don’t let yourself indulging in electronic products, have a dependence on mobile phones and computers.
Liu Shuqing recommends “mobile phone”, set a shutdown time, forcing their return to a State of peace, and was off all played a part, “this will assure you that at the moment, to focus on the work at hand. ”
“The key to solving the problems lies in fostering self-discipline willpower, temptation by abuse slaves. “Speak Luo Jiao.